Family Law – Representing yourself in court

National Family Mediation have provided the following information on Representing Yourself in Court:-

Since the changes to Legal Aid in April 2013, there are now a greater number of people representing themselves in court without instructing a Solicitor.

There are various informative leaflets on the website that outline in detail the divorce procedure D183 etc. and also Children and Ancillary Relief applications. Leaflet EX50 explains the court fees in full.  Many courts are now operating in court duty family solicitor schemes and duty in-court mediation schemes to assist unrepresented parties. Family courts are fairly informal and there is wearing of wigs in court. If at any time you do not understand what is happening, speak up.

Support Material for Self-representation in court

This information sheet outlines the support available to those intending to represent themselves in court on family issues, which is often referred to as being a ‘litigant in person’.


Family Courts Without a Lawyer: A Handbook for Litigants in Person, written by Lucy Reed, a barrister at St John’s Chambers, Bristol, and the author of the PinkTape blog.

A guide to representing yourself in court, produced by the Bar Council (downloadable at the bottom of this page).


Family Court Support –

  • There are also a number of books advertised on this website like ‘Family Courts without a lawyer: a handbook LIPs’; Advocacy in Family Proceedings’ and ‘Do your own divorce – a practical guide on divorce without a lawyer’.
  • This organisation also provides training specifically to become a McKenzie friend.
  • This organisation also provides training to court service staff, lawyers and the judiciary on how to deal with those representing themselves in court.

Families Need Fathers –

  • Factsheets for the self-representing available through Families Need Fathers costs between £1 and £2 for members and £2.50 for non-members
  • They also have an article on their website about representing oneself which includes a FAQ section with the following four Q&A:

– Could you do a decent job?

– Why might you want to represent yourself?

– What other considerations are there?

– Where can I obtain practical help (includes info on McKenzie friends, FNF volunteers, pro-bono solicitors and CAB’s. Also Personal Support Unit at the Royal Courts of Justice and PRFD offers people to accompany Litigants in Person to hearings but offers no legal advice)?

Wikivorce –

  • Articles on preparing court bundles and how to cross-examine. Client will be required to sign up to Wikivorce in order to access these and other resources from the website.

Rights of Women –

  • DIY guides for those self-representing in court including one on obtaining a Non-Molestation Injunction and representing yourself in Children Act Proceedings.

Gingerbread –

  • Fact sheets available for separating parents and a community site and support which can be downloaded or emailed in separate packages dependant on support required

Citizens Advice Bureau –

  • Some bureau’s assist with completing forms by appointment

 Shared Parenting Information Group (SPIG) UK –

 Resolution –

  •  Resolution’s Good practice guides on dealing with litigants in person
  • Useful resources including fact sheets to provide those self-representing with some legal background, hints and tips.

Law Society –

Helpful National Organisations

  • Advice guide – online help from the Citizens’ Advice Bureau on welfare benefits, debt and housing rights.
  • Advice Now – provides good information on the law and your rights with sections on parents living apart, finances and family mediation
  • Legal Aid Agency – National list of providers of independent legal advice in limited circumstances
  • Divorce Aid – useful range of legal, financial and emotional information
  • Divorce Resource – in depth legal, financial and emotional information
  • Grandparents Association – offers support and advice to grandparents particularly those who are having problems seeing their grandchildren.